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HE HURTS ME BUT I STILL LOVE HIM......

Dear Aunty Muna,

I was dating a divorcee who is 44 years old. After his divorce he wasn't in any relationship for 4 years. Things were OK at first, but I noticed he was quick tempered. He threw cups, plates or bottles against the wall, smashed the TV set or punched the door and injured himself when he was angry. I was never allowed to so much as look at another guy or he’d accuse me of flirting with the man. We both work but when I collect my salary, I give him everything and I have to be begging colleagues for transport fare. He had accommodation issues so he moved in with me. I have a car but he uses it and I am not permitted to drive my car. The stress was just too much.

WATERMELON VS VIAGRA.....

Are you a husband and wondering how to make your wife happy this long Easter holiday? Don't worry, Ive got your back. Just go and buy WATERMELON....Watermelon is a fun and cool snack to enjoy at any time of the day. Watermelon may be one of the latest foods to add to the **aphrodisiac list in addition to being one of the healthiest foods to consume. Watermelon has the ability to trigger a sexual response that can increase the male libido by relaxing blood vessels. So Skip the burgers, nkwobis, suyas, soda and beer and eat plenty of WATERMELON instead. Yes... WATERMELON.

Who Determines The Sex of Your Children?

​The Question:

Dear Aunty Muna, Why is my wife always having girl kids? I love them though but I want to experience having a son. Now she is putting all the blame on me. Presently I have 4 girls and I honestly thought I would have only three kids. My wife is pestering me to try again but i am scared of having another baby girl. Please what could be the problem and is there any help we can get? Is it truly my fault? Please reply.

Worried Man.

THE CABBAGE OF LIFE....

HISTORY OF CABBAGE

The Egyptians ate cabbage with vinegar before a night of drinking to prevent hangovers. Cabbage is still today considered one of the best remedies to cure hangovers! The Romans also ate cabbage to cure every imaginable ailment under the sun! They ate it raw with vinegar before and after each meal.

ERECTION PROBLEMS? READ THIS...

Erectile Dysfunction Treatment & Natural Herbal Remedies

Erectile dysfunction or malfunction involves the improper functioning of male reproductive organ as a result of which the male organ or penis is unable to secure erection during the performance of sexual act. Erection which is enabled by a spurt of blood flow into the penis is the combined interplay of hormonal and neurological stimulations. Owing to hormonal insufficiency, deficiency of potassium, diabetes, cardiac ailments and psychological factors; erectile dysfunction may occur. Erectile dysfunction leading to male impotency may well develop as side effect of drugs such as anti depressants.

R.I.P To All Who Lost Their Lives In The Abuja Attack This Morning.... We Weep.

Hello beautiful people. I believe and I'm also glad that you all are safe.... I'm honestly so grateful to God for you. I woke up this morning to hear the sad news of the bomb blast in Nyanya, Abuja. I thought it was a minor issue but when I called my kid brother, he told me it was serious. I panicked and started calling all the people I know in Abuja and to the glory of God they are all fine. I give God all the glory. It is just sad that some people don't have the fear of God in them anymore. This act is inhuman and ungodly abeg. How can killing a fellow human being make you happy? How can cutting short the lives of innocent people mean victory? Why all the bitterness? Haba!!! This hate must stop but it wouldn't stop when politicians promise us, It wouldnt stop when our police promise us. It wouldnt stop when our rich, money bags say so... This hate, this bitterness, this pain will stop when each one of us says so!!!!!!

SHOW YOUR HUSBAND HOW YOU WANT HIM TO LOVE YOU...

I have heard ladies say to me " Aunty Muna, I'm so angry with my husband because he doesn't act like he loves me any more". And when I probe further you hear them say " oh Aunty isn't he supposed to do this, that and that?" Haba, nobody is a mind ready. Your husband is not a magician so I disagree with you saying that he is supposed to know this and that.

Guys, What's The correct way to Perform Oral Sex on Wifey?

​That Special "V" kiss.

Hi guys, we are going to be talking a bit dirty now. Pardon me. These I issues I encounter daily and I think sharing the little  knowledge I have researched would go a long way in helping some people. Some of my clients cry out that their husbands demand oral sex while they refuse to give it back. Others have said that when their husbands start with the oral sex thing that they end up either bruised or left with so much pain and spit splattered all over their body and the sheets. For some, it's an annoying and libido killing experience while others feel it is just too disgusting an experience and for some others, it's a great experience. We're talking about oral sex! Everyone has a different story and interest in oral sex - giving AND receiving. Here, we'll explore that elusive technique of giving your woman the big "Oral O".

Are You Trapped & Unhappy in Your Relationship?

By DARLENE LANCER

Do you feel trapped in a relationship you can’t leave?

Of course, feeling trapped is a state of mind. No one needs consent to leave a relationship. Millions of people remain in unhappy marriages that range from empty to abusive for many reasons; however, the feeling of suffocation or of having no choices stems from fear that’s often unconscious.

YOU SHOULD CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS

Control to Your Emotions

You are a powerful being in many ways and so self control is something we all should have. You should be able to control your emotions and not the other way round. Why then do we lose control to our emotional reactions if we were built to be able to control it? 

 We lose control because we have put so much into our beliefs that they are now powerful and generate a lot of emotions. The power we put in them is faith. Not the religious type of faith, but rather a personal power of faith. Every one has it.

WHEN THE HONEYMOON IS OVER.....

​​Wow. What a wonderful wedding I had. And a memorable honeymoon too. Aww... So much fun. I wish my marriage will remain like this forever.... But...we all know that sooner or later the honeymoon will be over one day yeah?

It may last weeks, months, or even years. But it does end. And then another phase of relationship begins…. 

Is “real life” finally entering the equation? Does perfect love somehow just slip away? Sadly, many couples look back at a honeymoon only to feel they've lost something, the rest of the relationship never quite measuring up to it.

MEN AND THE FEMALE BREAST...

Some Reasons Men Are Attracted to Breasts

Though the preference for men varies according to size, there is no doubt that men love breasts. No wonder women catch them staring at their chest instead of the face most of the time. This is the reason why women are so concerned about the appearance and size of their breasts. They don’t want to feel unattractive and breasts are a major part of the attraction package. So, why are men so much into breasts? Here are 10 probable reasons why.

SMALL BOOBS ROCK TOO...WINK...

This article is to let my sisters with small boobs know they are beautiful just they way they are. The funny thing is that I am one person who loves everything in moderation but growing up you must have heard the saying that bigger is better. This most times is not just a saying but a belief. I've come across a few men who believe that a woman with bigger breast is always better but i beg to differ because wether you are an A-cup or Z-cup, the breasts define femininity in the same way that the the penis define masculinity. So as long as you are a woman and have two balls on your chest, the good news it that your small chest rocks.

OUR HUSBANDS PLEASE STOP DOING THIS TO US......LOL

40 Things Our Husbands Should Stop Doing To Us lol.

Ok guys, we've talked about what women should stop doing to their husbands.... Now.... Now.... Nowwwwww..... What are those things our husbands need to stop doing that hurt us..... Hmmm.  After writing this list I read it out to my husband. Meanwhile, while I read that for the women, he kept smiling and agreeing to everything I wrote and said to me, "sweetheart, if you can avoid doing all these thing on this list I will buy you any car you want...

Now it was the turn for the men and while I read the donts, my husband kept shouting, No, Ah, Hey, Noooo.... But come on, is it too much to ask for? looooool.

Sometimes our men need encouragement in their quest to step up and be the men God has called them to be. Sometimes they need information, and sometimes they need training. Sometimes they need a mentor, someone who will show them how to be godly men, how to love their wives as Christ loves the church.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ALBERT... MORE BLESSINGS...

Here's wishing one of my BBM brothers, Albert a very Happy birthday. I'm sorry it's coming late darling but like they always say, better late than never. Hope you had a great day sweetheart. Aunty Muna wishes you more blessings in your new year in Jesus name. Amen.

Here is a joke sent in by Blessing.  I am dedicating it to you just so that your new year will be full of laughter...

Abeg no laugh too much.
Blackberry don chop my money tire, na him I come vex yesterday sell am; come take some of the money buy China phone ! now am in bigger trouble !!!
1. The battery go full after only 3 minutes of charging.
2. The phone get T.V, touch screen, Nail cutter, Firelighter etc.
3. I fit write text message with a toothpick sef.
4. The spelling get mistakes e.g Nokla, Blackderry, i-pon, Samsang, etc.
5. When aeroplane pass e go record " one missed call " 
6. When a trailer horn; e go show " charger connected"
7. When Chinese man pass e go show: " one bluetooth device found "
8. When fine gal waka pass, e go show " new app detected, download now "
9. When ugly gal pass, e go show, " virus detected "
Abeg I wan sell am! Who wan buy ooo? Even as I dey find buyer, e dey show me for screen : " no contact found ".
Hope I cracked you up. 
Have a great evening.

DO YOU LOVE YOUR HUSBAND? THEN STOP THESE THINGS NOW

​​The Simple Things Wives Should Stop Doing

Have you ever wondered what your words and actions say to your husband about your love for him?

As a growing child I used to listen to one old school song by Kenny Thomas,  It's chorus was something like this "I gotta get the best of you, I gotta get the best of you my baby" or something like that.

I’ve been married for a while now, and it’s still very important for me to consider my husband’s needs. I always guard myself against the use of careless words, attitudes, and actions so that I can get the best of him. Funny yeah?

I asked some of my married girlfriends, “What should they think a wife should stop doing if she wants to improve her marriage and this list is based on some of their responses.

HOW TO DEAL WITH THE CHALLENGES OF BEING THE PARENT OF A SPECIAL NEEDS CHILD

You Are Not Alone

Today I want to talk about a special set of people. Lovely people that God sent to a few special parents. I am talking about children with special needs. When I see such children, I love them and play a lot with them. I hope this write up helps parents in dealing with the issues that come with having very special kids. This is not and can never be a curse. It can also happen to anybody anytime so please always show some love. If you are a parent with such a child, I would say welcome and keep up with the good work.

ARE YOU JUST A CHURCH GOER?

My BBM Brother Jay sent me this article. Please read it. There is something for everybody in this article. Much love guys. Thanks Jay... Nice one.

Just Do Something

"For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also." (James 2:26)

I was raised near water and most of my life, I've been able to look out the windows of my house and watch families in their boats and people having fun on the water.

IS LOOSE VAGINA REALLY A PROBLEM?

PROBLEM 1.

Aunty, My husband says he doesn’t enjoy sex with me anymore. He says my vagina is now too loose  and too wet for him and that it is it supposed to be tight and not loose. It wasn't like that before. I too don't feel any friction whenever he is on me. I’m really upset about what he said. Is there a solution to this type of problems? We love each other dearly but this looks like it's going to be a problem in our marriage. I feel very abnormal right now.

Biola

PROBLEM 2.

Aunty Muna has making babies ruined my vagina and my sex life? I am a married 28 year old woman and I have two kids. I noticed this problem started after having my first child. Now after having my second it has worsened. Aunty M, my V is so loose now that I can barely feel anything during sex. My husband is richly endowed ( I call him Mr Endowed) which makes it even worse for me that I can't feel him inside me any longer!